
Do you recall those good old times when owning a camera was a luxury so instead people would go to a photo studio/ booth to take a picture with your loved ones, the times where people didn’t have to worry about how many likes they get on their selfie on their social media or didn’t care about how people would comment on their appearances? But now with the advanced technology people have moved from a basic black and white screen communicating purpose mobile phone to a high quality LED screen, internet surfing camera phone. A digital narcissism where some people use selfies as a medium to record the memories for themselves, while others may use it to feed their ego by getting “likes” and “comments” on their selfies/ posts on their social media.
Well, I’m sure we all are pretty well aware of what a selfie is and how it works but what is the actual meaning to it? According to a research done by THERESA M. SENFT (2015), a selfie is a photographic object that “initiates the transmission of human feeling in the form of a relationship (between photographer and photographed, between image and filtering software, between the viewer and viewed, between individuals circulating images, between users and social software architectures, etc.).”
In words of Chamorro-Premuzic (2014), this selfie culture is “a world of endless ostentation opportunities and unlimited bragging possibilities.” Even when people say they’re only taking selfies to capture the precious moments, we can’t completely deny the fact that at times if not some people mostly use selfies as a medium to show off and feed their narcissism ego. If not then there isn’t a need to take selfies with your food, items, or your branded goodie stuff and edit it and put it up on your social media.
But most people do that because they wanna let others know that they have been to that specific place, ate at that restaurant or owe that branded stuff. In general, letting everyone know that they are in the “trend”. People are so sucked in this toxic trend that some of them are more concerned about their followers “likes”, “comments” and approval than actually enjoying and living in the moment. It seems like those “likes” and “comments” satisfy their self- esteem providing that fake celebrity-like lifestyle illusion. Thus, this toxic trend makes you believe that the more “likes” and “comment” you get on your selfies/ posts, the more attention you get, the more famous you are.
According to the article from Forbes, “American Psychiatric Association (APA) had officially classified taking ‘Selfies’ as a mental disorder. APA also claimed to name the disorder ‘Selfitis.’ The cultural phenomenon of the ‘Selfie’ exposes a very basic human desire—to feel noticed, appreciated and recognized.”
According to Cooley’s concept of the looking glass self, “the view we have of ourselves comes from contemplating our personal qualities and the impressions of how others perceive us so how we see ourselves does not come from who we are but rather from how we believe others see us. (Cooley, 1902)” hence, we tend to believe the “likes” and “comments” we get from our followers even though we know that beauty is much more than skin deep.
“Status seeking is a primary motivator for human action.” Marwick (2013) ts common for people wanting to be liked and admired and they try to achieve this by uploading a selfie edited or unedited for people to “like and “comment” and get that confirmation to boost their self-esteem. With the advanced, we can now control and manipulate the contents of our selfies and posts.
However, it doesn’t mean you’ll always get positive comments because sometimes people may dislike and leave some negative “comments” on your selfie and they may truly hurt your feelings. Some people merely judge a person based on their selfie and honestly speaking that sounds ridiculous and laughable to me. So make sure that you don’t lose your real identity while you’re obsessed with taking selfies because you can only fake it for a few moments.
All in all, this digital narcissism era gives meaning to taking selfies as people try to show their best/ goof life by taking selfies to fulfil their self- esteem. But hopefully, people realize that we shouldn’t be a selfie freak because our life has more meaning to it than just taking selfies. How about actually going out and talking and interacting with real people instead of your virtual friends and followers.
References:
- Nordstrom, D. S. and T. (2014, April 29). The ‘Selfie’: Mental Disorder Or Insight To Getting Better Results? Retrieved May 14, 2020, from https://www.forbes.com/sites/davidsturt/2014/04/29/the-selfie-mental-disorder-or-insight-to-getting-better-results/#d3080276cc2a
- Qureshi, H. X. (2014, May 27). Self & cooley’s looking glass self. Retrieved May 14, 2020, from https://www.slideshare.net/huxaifaqureshi5/self-cooleys-looking-glass-self
- SENFT, T. H. E. R. E. S. A. M., & BAYM, N. A. N. C. Y. K. (n.d.). nternational Journal of Communication 9(2015), Feature 1588–1606. What Does the Selfie Say? Investigating a Global Phenomenon. Retrieved from https://ijoc.org/index.php/ijoc/article/viewFile/4067/1387























